Knots and Tangles

My maternal grandmother, once took a thread. Then she proceeded to knot it. After which she told me I need to detangle it. After I detangled it, which by the way was not that easy, she told me that is how easy it is for life to get tangled. I was pretty young at that time I did not understand what she meant. However, she went on to say, anything problem can be resolved. Provided you want it badly enough.

At that time, I didn’t really pay attention to what she said. However, today, all of a sudden I remembered this story again. I was wondering about how things in life get messed up. Situations which makes you think that everything has come to an end. It might not sound like there are a few things which can be looked at and fixed.

There are things which might not be solvable, but some things are worth working hard for. That is how I have always thought. Fighting for what you think you have no blood left inside your body. The wounds on your body, your heart and your mind might make you believe that there is nothing, and I mean nothing which might be worth the pain.

But I feel there are something’s which might just be worth it. Believing you are good enough for someone, might not sound like it is a good thing. But it is if the person feels the same way. A friend of mine who is married now, once told me before he got married; that there is nothing more wonderful then having your feelings reciprocated by the person you feel the same way.

I really don’t understand how easy it is for people to give up on someone. Is that really that easy. Is there nothing in this world which is worth fighting for? I guess I am not built in a way to