The Would-Be Writer

So, without any fluff and bullshit, let me tell you I am back. Essentially, it feels like I never left. Since I feel like I have come full circle. There is no other fancy or pretty way of saying this. Being a part of a couple is not easy. So I have learnt.  There is no beautiful way of putting it, emotional security isn't all that amazing, as mentioned in multiple memes, stories, Instagram reels, etc etc. People really do not like being a part of a whole.  Quite honestly, I haven’t written in sometime. I’m really patchy, my thoughts are scattered. I am continuously wondering what to write, even when I have multiple thoughts in my mind about it.  Life took me on a new journey, and now I’m on another journey which is alien to me. And to tell you the truth, I think the loss I am feeling isn’t about the person, it is more about the title, the tag I had. But what good is the tag when the clothing isn’t comfortable. When the pants you are wearing, is a cinch too tight, and the ...

Its been some time ago since I had to really think about something like this: breaking up. We human beings need to be surrounded by relations at all times. There is not a moment when a person would want to be alone and without people to care for them.  Apart from being married, another relationship title which is a huge thing is being a couple. Romantically involved as some would say.  Well these relationships are a land mine. This is not a bitter realization which I suddenly came across, no, this has been in my head since I was old enough to acknowledge things around me. Till now through life all I have learned is that relationships are not as easy as they look on the outside.  It's true that while a marriage is hard to break, a romantic relationship is much easier. Couples might spend years and years together and still not get married. While some couples might be together for only a short period of time and decide to get hitched.  While making a relationship w...