The Art of Flirting

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We all flirt... Yes you may deny it, you may reason that flirting is only a tool used by the uncommitted, single, sorry souls out there.... But the blatant truth is guys, girls, married, unmarried, straight or gay; everyone flirts.... 
I have seen girls at my university pass with just a mere smile on their lips... How you might ask is that possible, wo to Bohot buri hain Parhai Mai, Kese paas hogai.... (They were horrible when it came to studies, how did they pass). We all know all those visits to the office of the Buddha professor (old) didn't go to waste... We applaud the perseverance of such girls.
I mean they should be given their due respect. They put in time and effort in all the little things that make flirting an art. The clothes in the morning, the straightend hair, or a slight bed head look, the perfect pout, the gratifying tone of voice, are all played out to perfection. 
It's such girls that make us unconcerned little ingrates look bad. I mean I for one only put an effort into getting dressed for my university is when I feel the need to. That need is extremely rare I. Occurrence, yet it is appreciated since the difference is highly visible. The boys with their typical Ji ma'am bilkul ma'am are highly nauseating. Matlab female teacher kya mil gai inhu ne to ghar wali baatain shuru kardi... ( on the event of getting a female teacher, they find it ok to talk about stuff at home) 
C'mon boys give us a break, not all female teachers are starved for attention. And then it is you boys who make faces and spread rumors when girls do the same bloody thing. 
For the men who are married and like to smile and be highly polite, to the assistant sitting at the reception, or the girl with the cute smile at the check out counter, or any such female; who isn't your wife and the mother of you children; that is known as FLIRTING!!!! Yes I mean c'mon be reasonable, being polite and being extra sweet with sugar and cherry in the mix is flirting. When your wives talk to the cites guys behind the counter with a polite smile, it makes the hair on your neck stand. That small gesture of politeness becomes flirting. Imagine how your wife feels when you lean a bit closer to the check out counter girl, at the pretext of hearing her properly....
It is said, that politeness is so far and forgotten, that it now is mistaken for politeness. I would like to completely and utterly disagree. Being polite and laying it on thick are two different things. Specially now that we have the capacity to flirt on different mediums and platforms.....
By departing note: flirting can be harmful as long as both parties are consenting. Ciao my pretties 

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