On Again Off Again

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I don't understand men! Like I really don't. I thought I did, but I really don't. How does a guy who is supposedly engaged to the love of their life flirt with another girl?? In what world or reality does this seem to be alright??
No I'd really like to know? Or how does someone sleep with a girl tell her she's not the one and then ask her to hav phone sex with them?? There is no way that people would get that stupid.
Over time I have seen sooo many different types of people that I have found out that underneath the surface all people are the same. Their basic desire and their basic needs are the samne. And there is ko denying all this. People just don't get to change how they feel about something if they are not capable of recognizing why they feel that way.
But how does a guy or a girl cheat in someone? How do men and women justify cheating on their counter part? I believe that for women it is due to neglect. But I don't think men would understand that. To them it is something out of the question. 
I once read a story about a woman who was facing empty nest syndrome. Infact she was well past that. And her husband didn't pay attention to her. Try and she might he just didn't seem to understand her.... And she just chances upon a guy on the roof of her apartment building. Over a cup of tea they learnt about each other. One cup if tea led to another and then another and then another. While over time they just got into a routine of talking about things. 
They only met up on the roof. Nothing sexual or dirty or perverted. And then she finds out he is a spirit. I mean how rude can the guy be? Not telling the whole story to the woman who is falling in love with him? 
But it was a sweet story and there is no other way of putting it. He helped the woman find the woman in her. He helped make her whole again. Isn't that what a guy is supposed to do for a woman??? Last I heard it was. But oh welllll!!!!
That's all for today and now let's see when my mind gets filled up with shit next time......... 

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