Procrasination
Hi All,
Alright so that spelling and grammar will be a bit shitty. since I am typing in a hurry and also not using Word to further make me feel stupid. I just felt the need to pen down these thoughts running in my head. since I am going crazy with them.
What I have been wondering lately is whether people come into our lives to just fuck it up. I mean you should come into someone's life to be there. and if you aren't there to stay for a long time, then just clear it in the beginning dude. I mean c'mon we aren't kids anymore. We know what we want, we should be at such an understanding of ourselves that we should understand the impact we may have on other people.
I mean come on, are you telling me that you don't know how someone might react to your mean words. Are you honestly asking me to believe that if a girl is spending time with you, she isn't getting attached to you. Are you honestly that dense that you don't understand the small cues and inflections that come into body language when someone is willing to be there for you.
Every new person coming into my life should know that I am not a walking mat. note that I used the word walking and not welcome. Well that is intentional. I don't welcome new people into my life anymore. And its only people walking through now. Since no one seems to know what their mind is all about nowadays. Meaning they don't know what they want. They are getting worse than women PMS-ing, I mean seriously.
Apart from being completely clueless as to what they want, people are becoming so unconnected these days that it is infuriating. I don't think there is a place for people who are genuine anymore. So to all you genuine people out there please leave a comment and I will get back to you shortly. To all the others who are not at all sure about what they want to do when they meet with someone, please leave a comment and we can start you classes as to how to relate and understand other people INSTANTLY.
Yes I sound bitter and probably rude. But this is the truth. I mean it might be happening just with me. but it is happening. People come into my life and say one thing, but then they end up doing another thing. Alright I suppose minds might change and moods might alter lots of other things. But I don't you know when your mood changes, don't you understand when and how your intentions towards another person changes. I mean even kids know when they like someone and when they don't like someone. So I really don't know what age category you fall in.
So yes, my point of this post is, people should be clear about what they want from someone else. They have no right to play around with the time, energy and feelings of other people. I am at work right now and I know exactly what I want and how I will deal with situations that come towards me. for people who are more or less my age, I expect the same things from them. And honestly I don't think that's such a hard thing to do. And word to the wise, it might make your life a bit more easier when you know how someone fits into your life.
It might also make it easier for you to deal with difficult conversations that come up. I for example know when to have the hard discussion with the people in my life. When I like someone I make it felt and when I don't like someone I make that known very clearly. There is not much that I can do other than let people know how much they mean to me or how little they factor into my life. There are many other things which I would like to talk about. but alas I don't have the time right now. Well honestly I do. But I also want this to sink in. There is not much else that will matter if people don't understand this part of the post.
As a parting remark I would like to say please make up your mind.
Alright so that spelling and grammar will be a bit shitty. since I am typing in a hurry and also not using Word to further make me feel stupid. I just felt the need to pen down these thoughts running in my head. since I am going crazy with them.
What I have been wondering lately is whether people come into our lives to just fuck it up. I mean you should come into someone's life to be there. and if you aren't there to stay for a long time, then just clear it in the beginning dude. I mean c'mon we aren't kids anymore. We know what we want, we should be at such an understanding of ourselves that we should understand the impact we may have on other people.
I mean come on, are you telling me that you don't know how someone might react to your mean words. Are you honestly asking me to believe that if a girl is spending time with you, she isn't getting attached to you. Are you honestly that dense that you don't understand the small cues and inflections that come into body language when someone is willing to be there for you.
Every new person coming into my life should know that I am not a walking mat. note that I used the word walking and not welcome. Well that is intentional. I don't welcome new people into my life anymore. And its only people walking through now. Since no one seems to know what their mind is all about nowadays. Meaning they don't know what they want. They are getting worse than women PMS-ing, I mean seriously.
Apart from being completely clueless as to what they want, people are becoming so unconnected these days that it is infuriating. I don't think there is a place for people who are genuine anymore. So to all you genuine people out there please leave a comment and I will get back to you shortly. To all the others who are not at all sure about what they want to do when they meet with someone, please leave a comment and we can start you classes as to how to relate and understand other people INSTANTLY.
Yes I sound bitter and probably rude. But this is the truth. I mean it might be happening just with me. but it is happening. People come into my life and say one thing, but then they end up doing another thing. Alright I suppose minds might change and moods might alter lots of other things. But I don't you know when your mood changes, don't you understand when and how your intentions towards another person changes. I mean even kids know when they like someone and when they don't like someone. So I really don't know what age category you fall in.
So yes, my point of this post is, people should be clear about what they want from someone else. They have no right to play around with the time, energy and feelings of other people. I am at work right now and I know exactly what I want and how I will deal with situations that come towards me. for people who are more or less my age, I expect the same things from them. And honestly I don't think that's such a hard thing to do. And word to the wise, it might make your life a bit more easier when you know how someone fits into your life.
It might also make it easier for you to deal with difficult conversations that come up. I for example know when to have the hard discussion with the people in my life. When I like someone I make it felt and when I don't like someone I make that known very clearly. There is not much that I can do other than let people know how much they mean to me or how little they factor into my life. There are many other things which I would like to talk about. but alas I don't have the time right now. Well honestly I do. But I also want this to sink in. There is not much else that will matter if people don't understand this part of the post.
As a parting remark I would like to say please make up your mind.
i have a genuine side, but i have stopped showing it to people. (courtesy to people you may know :P ). DD i have learned, you will find the thing you are looking for, when you stop looking for it. (unless its part of the divine test, which is rarely the case)
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